Saturday, August 20, 2011

Something to look forward to!

So, this past week, we have upped things a bit. I'm asking permission for more things, I am calling Him Sir or Master in private (or at least trying to, will post about that another time) and Daddy or Babe in public.  And our sex life has been kicked up a notch or two.  So, I'm on day one of a four day weekend.  Master is working tonight, and tomorrow, but he also has Monday and Tuesday off, so we are going to have some fun, both family and private.  Today we picked up the one car that just got fixed (and cost us way too much money), and we went to church as a family, DD was on Altar server duty.  Tomorrow DD and I are going with our friends (my BFF and her daughter) to the local Art Museum, and then Monday and Tuesday are FAMILY days!  We are going to go to the water park one day, and then no idea the other day, maybe some back to school shopping.  But, Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday nights....there is going to be some FUN being had in our bedroom!  I can't wait.  And I am going to be more diligent about calling him Master and Sir in private!  (Again, will post about that later)  but for now, I wait!

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Pennies from Heaven

So, I was in a good little slave mood, and doing housework today.  After Master left for work, and I got the main floor of the house all cleaned up, I went to vacuum.  I did our bedroom and noticed the vacuum was letting off a burning smell.  I figured it was because the bag was full.  I was right, so I emptied the bag and headed to the basement to see if there was a new one.  I went to the pantry, and found the little box where they had been before.  As I was pulling it out, I remember taking the bags out of the box, but I checked it anyway.  Sure enough, I found our Hannukah and Advent candles in the box.

As I went to put the box back, I noticed that the shelf liner had moved, and there was paper under it.  I grabbed, it and realized it was a bank envelope.  My hands shaking, I opened it, and found a bunch of twenties inside.  On a whim I check under the rest of the liner, and found 4 more envelopes.

My mother in law must have stashed them there at some point.

We live in my Master's childhood home.  When his parents passed away (his father over 8 years ago, his mother, just a little over 7) we inherited and moved into the home.

Anyway, his parents always took care of us, they bought us a deep freezer when we got married, along with a monetary gift, they bought us a car once, although, that was supposed to be a loan, but any time we tried to pay them back they wouldn't take it, things like that.  And now, when times are tough, and we barely have enough money to buy bread and milk, she sends us this.  I know she is looking out for us from above.  And it's appreciated!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Disappointment

So, last night was a night of disappointment.  It turned out to be good sex, GREAT sex in fact, but not exactly what I was hoping for. Here's what happened:

Daughter had a sleep over at a friends house planned.  Master worked the day shift, and I didn't have to be at work till noon the next day.  Master did have a soft ball game but we had a kinky night planned.  I had sent him a list of things I would like to try, and he was going to pick some to do, since we would have the house to ourselves.  We were also going to go to the bar with his friends, and out to eat after the softball game.  (We don't drink, but we would have gone to hang out with friends.) I had also planned to meet Master at the door, wearing nothing but a collar.

BUT!

The mom of the other girl forgot.  This is the second time she has done this, and she has also done some other things to prove her unreliable.

My daughter, who is autistic, was devastated.  She was crying.  Not only did she now not have a sleep over to go to, but she has also turned down a chance to go to a friends house for the day, because she thought she was going to go to the other friends house.

So we had a make a rule. No making plans with this friend anymore.  If she wants to play right then, that's one thing, but we are not making plans ahead of time with them.

So, it sucked all around, for her, and for us.

People suck!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

One of my problems with the community

So, I'm on Fetlife, which could be a GREAT source of information, except for the rudeness.

Now, I understand that anywhere you go, with any group of people, you are going to run into assholes!

I asked a question about finding info to help teach my husband about being a Dominant.  And while some people were kind and helpful, some people were unnecessarily snarky.  You can give your thoughts and opinions and still be polite and kind.

Here's a link, please let me know if I'm wrong:

http://fetlife.com/groups/2439/group_posts/1656452

Having other issues, I'll write about later, tired now, and want to spend time with Master.  Who, is the only person's opinions I should be concerned with.

Friday, August 5, 2011

A new step

Master and I are on different schedules, mainly because of work.  He works nights, I work days.  He works weekends, and 5 days a week, I work mainly weekdays, and only 3-4 days a week.  We also have a wonderful daughter, who is off of school for the summer.  Therefore, there doesn't leave much time for any sex or play.

For a while now, I've been telling Master that I would love it if he would wake me up for sex.  Either when he got home from work, or when he wakes up from his naps (if he his home his naps usually fall from 10pm till about midnight or so).  But up until now, he has never done so.  I know that he wants me to get my sleep, and that is his decision when we have sex, so I am ok with that.  (Plus I can be cranky sometimes  when I'm woken up.)

He has a pulled hamstring, so he woke me up at 3:30 to put on some of the medication that helped earlier in the evening.  I did so, with out a problem, and then crawled back into bed, expecting to go back to sleep.

I was VERY pleasantly surprised when that was not on the agenda!

I'm not going to go into great detail here, I'm not ready to do that yet, maybe in the future.  But he was very demanding with me, I LOVED it!  I don't know exactly what caused it, but I wish I did, cause I would make sure it happened more often.

He also ordered me not to get up early this morning, since I didn't have to be to work till later in the morning, which I happily obeyed as well.  My email from him this morning was very to the point, "Domish"  as well, which is also out of the norm.

I am a happy little slave girl this morning!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Slacker

I just can't seem to catch up, part of it is because I'm a slacker, and a big part of it is getting used to being back in the work force.  I think a big difference will come when DD starts back to school in a month.  I'll have to get up at 6am, Mon-Fri, so my schedule won't be all over the place.  The days I won't be working till later, I can get stuff done around the house while Master sleeps, and the days I do work earlier, I will be up in time to get ready.

Master is on a softball team with his friends.  Their first game was last night, and Master hurt himself.  Pulled a hamstring. Which is bad, but there are two things I've found out from this experience.  Firstly, watching Master play, especially when pitching, totally turned me on.  Second, I have reinforced that I enjoy helping Master.  I was looking in the closet for something to help with the pain, Bengay, Icy Hot, etc.  Found something called absorbin Jr. and I put it on him.  So far it really seems to help!  It says it can be used 4 times a day, so I'm going to do my best to apply it every 6 hours to help him.  I hate when he is hurt and there is nothing I can do, so to have been able to help with something, that made me feel great.

We managed to have some quality time together last night.  It was very intense, and I was super horny, even after I had an orgasm.  I'm hoping we get a chance to fool around tonight, but he is sleeping now, after some very long days, so I'm not sure.  I should be getting things done and ready, we are going camping overnight with some friends Friday night (yet another reason I hope we fool around tonight, since we won't be able to Friday) but I'm super tired.  I may go to bed myself.  But first I'm going to post my rules, and my cleaning schedule that I'm supposed to follow.

Here's to a great weekend (and 4 days off after tomorrow!)