Write about a BDSM/kink activity you're curious about and would like to try.
There are sooo many things I want to try. But for this, I'm going with caning.
First off, it would be cheap to get a cane. Most I've seen are under 10 dollars, and MANY under 5.
I know there is certain ways you are supposed to use a cane. I would be more than willing to do research on this too, to "teach" Master how to cane me the right way.
Just one of the many things I want to try, one thing at a time!
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 14
How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven't experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Time.
Time is the factor that messes with real life BDSM/kink.
There isn't enough of it. We have to work, we have to clean the house, we have to run errands, we have commitments that we have to meet. It sucks.
You can't always walk around the house naked, with a collar on. Especially not if you have kids, or mixed company over.
You have to keep things private, you have to worry about what others think, unfortunatly. Which is a part I struggle with. There is a part of me that wants to wear a full collar, all day, every day. I want to be open about my submission to my husband. But I can only say so much, for fear it's used against me or Him in some way.
There are consequences to actions in real life, in fantasy, there are none.
Those are just some of the differences, as I see them.
Time.
Time is the factor that messes with real life BDSM/kink.
There isn't enough of it. We have to work, we have to clean the house, we have to run errands, we have commitments that we have to meet. It sucks.
You can't always walk around the house naked, with a collar on. Especially not if you have kids, or mixed company over.
You have to keep things private, you have to worry about what others think, unfortunatly. Which is a part I struggle with. There is a part of me that wants to wear a full collar, all day, every day. I want to be open about my submission to my husband. But I can only say so much, for fear it's used against me or Him in some way.
There are consequences to actions in real life, in fantasy, there are none.
Those are just some of the differences, as I see them.
Sunday, February 12, 2012
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 13
Explain, as best you can, what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you're drawn to?
The appeal? It depends on which aspect of BDSM/kink we are talking about.
When it comes to D/s or M/s it's pleasing Master. The knowledge that the things I do make him happy, makes me happy. Also, giving up control. I am a control freak, but for some reason, knowing he is in ultimately in control, is such a freeing, wonderful feeling. It's also exciting to me. To know that if, at any time, he were to decide to bend me over and fuck me, he could, that is exciting! To know that he can just grab me by the hair and kiss me, should he want to, he could, and I couldn't say anything about it. I love that feeling. To hear him say "Good Girl" when I do something that makes him happy, that feeling is better than anything. Those two simple words are what makes me happiest.
As far as the bedroom kinky stuff, it's all about pleasure there. Both mine and Master's. I love cumming myself, but I also LOVE making Master cum. To see my hands, wrapped around his hard cock, stroking it, playing with it, I love it!
I also love the feeling I get when Master is especially forceful. The reminder that I am weaker than he is, that even if I wanted to fight him off, I couldn't. That he can, in theory, make me do whatever he pleases, that gives me butterflies in my tummy! I love that feeling!
Those are just a few reasons I am drawn to kink/BDSM. There is so much more to it, but it's so hard to explain.
The appeal? It depends on which aspect of BDSM/kink we are talking about.
When it comes to D/s or M/s it's pleasing Master. The knowledge that the things I do make him happy, makes me happy. Also, giving up control. I am a control freak, but for some reason, knowing he is in ultimately in control, is such a freeing, wonderful feeling. It's also exciting to me. To know that if, at any time, he were to decide to bend me over and fuck me, he could, that is exciting! To know that he can just grab me by the hair and kiss me, should he want to, he could, and I couldn't say anything about it. I love that feeling. To hear him say "Good Girl" when I do something that makes him happy, that feeling is better than anything. Those two simple words are what makes me happiest.
As far as the bedroom kinky stuff, it's all about pleasure there. Both mine and Master's. I love cumming myself, but I also LOVE making Master cum. To see my hands, wrapped around his hard cock, stroking it, playing with it, I love it!
I also love the feeling I get when Master is especially forceful. The reminder that I am weaker than he is, that even if I wanted to fight him off, I couldn't. That he can, in theory, make me do whatever he pleases, that gives me butterflies in my tummy! I love that feeling!
Those are just a few reasons I am drawn to kink/BDSM. There is so much more to it, but it's so hard to explain.
Saturday, February 11, 2012
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 12
Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you've had. If you haven't had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Ok, the only one I have, that is funny and embarrassing, is farting when Master was playing with my ass.
Not a long story, but, looking back, it was funny. At the time I was mortified!
Friday, February 10, 2012
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 11
What are your views on the ethics of kink?
My views on the ethics of kink are my views on ethics in general.
Feel free to do what you want, as long as it doesn't hurt others.
I feel that way about religions, as long as you aren't hurting anyone, believe what you will. It doesn't hurt me if you don't believe in God, it doesn't hurt me if you want to worship cows, trees, whatever. I will respect you and your beliefs, as long as you respect me and mine!
When it comes to kink, it's the same way. I don't want to be pissed on, but if that is your thing, have at it, as long as you, and the person doing the pissing is good with it, why should it bother me.
I'm not gay, but I have no problem with anyone who is.
I don't want to change my gender, or cross dress, but I have no problem with anyone who does.
Harm none and do as ye will.
That is my life motto.
My views on the ethics of kink are my views on ethics in general.
Feel free to do what you want, as long as it doesn't hurt others.
I feel that way about religions, as long as you aren't hurting anyone, believe what you will. It doesn't hurt me if you don't believe in God, it doesn't hurt me if you want to worship cows, trees, whatever. I will respect you and your beliefs, as long as you respect me and mine!
When it comes to kink, it's the same way. I don't want to be pissed on, but if that is your thing, have at it, as long as you, and the person doing the pissing is good with it, why should it bother me.
I'm not gay, but I have no problem with anyone who is.
I don't want to change my gender, or cross dress, but I have no problem with anyone who does.
Harm none and do as ye will.
That is my life motto.
Thursday, February 9, 2012
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 10
What are your hard limits?
These are really easy for me.
No scat
No urine
No animals
No age play (or children)
No incest
Those are off the top of my head, but those are the ones FOR SURE I have no interest in.
These are really easy for me.
No scat
No urine
No animals
No age play (or children)
No incest
Those are off the top of my head, but those are the ones FOR SURE I have no interest in.
30 Day BDSM Challenge: Day 9
Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
I'm Your Man
Everybody Knows
S & M
I Like it Rough
Hanky Panky
There are tons more songs that turn me on, but these are the closest to being actually kink related. LOVE them!
I'm Your Man
Everybody Knows
S & M
I Like it Rough
Hanky Panky
There are tons more songs that turn me on, but these are the closest to being actually kink related. LOVE them!
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